In the Smoke of Dissent: Reflecting on Lost Friendship Through Dragon and Brass Incense Burners

Created by cha one month ago
In the quiet solitude of my room, where the scent of burning incense often fills the air, I find myself pondering the complexities of friendships lost to ideological divides. Today, my contemplation is accompanied by two distinct pieces: a Dragon Incense Burner and a Brass Incense Burner. Each holds its own unique allure and symbolism, much like the friendship that once thrived but eventually succumbed to differing beliefs.

The Dragon Incense Burner, with its intricate carvings and mythical symbolism, represents a friendship that was dynamic and vibrant. Dragons, often seen as powerful and mystical beings in folklore, could well symbolize the fierce passion and intensity we shared in our ideals and debates. This burner, with smoke billowing from the dragon’s mouth, serves as a poignant reminder of the fiery discussions that once energized our interactions, the smoke-like ideas rising passionately, only to dissipate into the ether.

In contrast, the Brass Incense Burner, with its sturdy and enduring construction, reflects a more grounded and enduring element of our friendship. Brass, known for its resilience, parallels the solid foundation we once had, built on mutual respect and shared experiences. It reminds me of the stability and support we offered each other, despite our occasional clashes. The gentle smoke rising from this burner wafts slowly, evenly, symbolizing the calm and steadiness that also characterized parts of our relationship.

However, over time, the differences in our core beliefs began to overshadow the common ground we shared. Like the contrasting styles of these incense burners, our perspectives diverged too far, leading to a rift. The dragon, once a symbol of strength in our friendship, became a figure of discord, its fiery breath too intense for peaceful coexistence. Meanwhile, the brass, though sturdy, could not hold the weight of repeated disagreements.

As I watch the smoke from both burners intertwine and then separate, I am reminded of the ephemeral nature of some relationships. Just as the incense's aroma fills the room momentarily, so too did our friendship occupy a significant but transient space in my life. The smoke, filling the air with its presence before fading away, mirrors how our shared moments and memories slowly drifted into a quiet nothingness, leaving behind a lingering scent but no substantial presence.

In this reflective moment, I realize the importance of accepting that not all relationships are meant to endure the harsh winds of change. Like the materials of these burners—dragon and brass—each friendship has its composition, its breaking point under pressure. Yet, each session of burning incense, regardless of the outcome, adds fragrance and depth to the tapestry of our lives.

So, with a heavy yet accepting heart, I acknowledge the end of a friendship that could no longer withstand the flames of disagreement. And as the last trails of smoke ascend and vanish, I cherish the lessons learned and the growth attained, knowing that, like the incense's essence, the core of what we shared will always linger subtly in the background of my journey.